Introduction:
There are some people whose words leave a strong impression in our mindsminds that we want to meet again and again. In this article, I will share with you 10 tips that will help you boost your Communication skills. After knowing these secret techniques, you will be able to communicate better. People will love talking to you, your relationships will improve, and you will be more successful in your life.
I can say this with confidence because, by working on these skills, I have changed my personal and professional lives as well. Because of these tips and techniques, I am able to speak confidently in front of thousands of people today. In this article, we will not talk about any technique that requires hard work. All these tips are simple, practical, and doable, but their results are powerful.
- Say Without Saying:
- Empathy:
- The sweetest words:
- Voice Modulation & Tone:
- Echoing Technique:
- Stories in Conversation:
- Humor Switch:
- Level Down:
- Be Calm:
- The Emotional Intelligence:
Say Without Saying :
Psychology contracts in the first 7 seconds to determine how you will make an impression on the person in front of you, how you stand, how you speak, what your body language is, what your gestures are doing, All this says a lot about you. Everyone has a style of body language. For example, if we talk about Hugh Laurie's body language, it is full of confidence and energy, Hugh Laurie excellence in his field, his body language is also a style. The way he meet, the way he talk, the way he walk on stage, everyone has an energy. Before we move on to the next point, we'll talk about five tips and tricks that will come in handy, now let's take a look at these five tips that will strengthen your body language.
a). Eye Contact:
Eye contact means look into the eyes of the person in front of you while talking, it will make you interested and attentive while listening, because the eyes say a lot, It transfers our emotions to others, so make eye contact when talking and listening, to get your interest and attention.
b). Sitting in Power Pose:
Have you ever seen great leaders sitting loosely, the conference is going on and everyone is sitting loosely, you don't see big leaders sitting loosely because all the big leaders are working on their poster. One study found that sitting in Power Pose for a few minutes increased participants' testosterone.
Sitting in Power Pose increases confidence level and Reduces stress. Just put your feet and shoulders forward while talking in power pose for a few minutes, this shows your focus and interest.
c). Use Hands When Speaking:
According to research, people who use their hands when speaking seem more convincing and attractive, but keep in mind that If you use too many hands, then you feel nervous. Use your hands sparingly, you feel very confident.
d). Sitting With Arms Crossed Means:
Sitting with arms crossed indicates that you are unapproachable or unfriendly, and your demeanor is different from others.
Sitting Hands On the Lab Means:
if you are sitting with your arms folded or your hands on the lab, it seems that you are open and friendly.
e). How to Handshake:
Nothing can be more awkward than a half-full handshake. Some people shake hands loosely, this should not be the case. And it should not be so solid that the front hand feels confused while shaking.
Empathy:
It is very important to know how to develop Empathy within yourself and how to develop Empathy in a relationship. From a domestic dispute to a war between two countries, what does empathy really mean? Understanding another person's feelings. For example, someone tells you that I didn't pass my exam, understand the feelings of the speaker, his thoughts, his pain. Meaning, put yourself in the position of how you would feel if you had not cleared the exam, if you received this news and with that feeling you answered "I'm not happy to hear that or "I'm sorry to hear that," so it comes out of empathy, which is what makes your relationship real and strong.
The Sweetest Words:
The third tip is the sweetest speech, if people consider it sweeter than honey, then it is their own name. Everyone's name is very important, so everyone makes sure that their name is pronounced correctly. So whenever you meet someone, remember his name very well that his name is also very dear to him, take his correct name in conversation.
Tone Modulation & Voice Modulation Exercise:
When we are excited and the speed at which we speak out sometimes confuses others. Your nervousness tells you you are trying to tell your point in a hurry. And even with your speed, you show that your speed moderates on a common matter. Public speakers consider speaking at regular intervals to be their most important tool in conversation. Now I'm sharing with you activity that you can use to improve your voice model and tone. This made you more effective in conversation, speed, and pause, like the speakers.
So let's talk about this activity, it's a simple activity, everyone has a phone, everyone has a camera in their phone, turn on the phone's camera, give yourself a topic, and speak on this topic. It's your own phone, your file is with you, listen to it later. Pay attention to your speech, speed, and pause, and think about where we can improve, where we've gone wrong, do it at least once a day. If you have time, do it one more time, And if you can save 10 to 15 minutes, you can do it three to four times a day. That you only did this for two to three weeks, record your video once or twice daily, see your face pose with consecutive paragraphs, you will become very big in 20 days. Seeing the result will make you feel better in yourself. And your self-confidence will increase.
Echoing Technique:
Tip number five this is especially for those who in conversation do not understand that the other is speaking but what shall we say, there is a hack for them. You have to catch one thing, repeat it and whatever interest or idea comes to mind. It has to do with, for example your friend tells you he likes wildLife photography, then you repeat the same words that wildlife photography is interesting. The method you've used He is to listen to each other, with him is a very simple way to move the matter forward. And it also tells the other person that you are paying attention to his words, listening to him and giving importance to what he is saying.
Include Stories in Conversation:
Let's come now Towards the sixth tip which is very helpful in making your communication powerful, why do we all love stories? People have passed thousands of years ago but their history is read and taught through stories. And most see the reels in which a story is playing, people are waiting to see part one, part two, part three, part four. Because the story attracts all of us. We are anxious to know what happened in the end, a suspense is created within us, this suspense keeps us connected to the story. And if you are interested in communicating, stories can help you a lot. So if you want people to listen to you, you should also use stories. This means that you should include your present and past events in a proper way in your conversation.
Humor Switch:
It's what makes something interesting He's Humor is the laughter of people. It's always nice to talk to people we laugh with. Now your question will be how to create humour. Focus on everyday situations and find humor in them. But the joke should be to a certain extent, and no one should be heartbroken in the joke. Having a light-hearted joke on yourself can be endearing, it shows humility. Don't take yourself too seriously! A lively attitude can encourage others to join in the fun. Watch comedies or funny movies to understand what makes people laugh.
Level Down:
First, let me tell you a story to better understand, which I told on a stage recently. A mother is with her child inside a festival and the child was constantly crying. His mother is keeping quiet. she says look at how many good toys he has here She was looking at the baby toy store, and when she saw the baby
The child is crying, I have to go home, don't look at me, I have to go home, the woman says, 'Dude I am showing him toys, why is he not happy?. After a few more steps, Look how beautiful the swings are, when she sees the child, the child is crying again, take me home, take me home, the mother is confused. Then finally she sees that the the child's laces are untied and she sit down to close the laces. When she goes to the child's level, she sees that the child can only see the crowd's legs. After tying the child's shoes she picks him up in the lap and asks the child, son you want to go from here to house, and what does the child say? I want to stay here, I can see those balloons.
I can see those toys, I can see those swings. This story makes us understand that in order to explain our point to others, we first need to reach their level, understand their point of view, only then can we understand their point of view and describe our point of view. It's a great way to make communication effective is to understand the other person's point of view, his language, whoever you're going to meet or talk to. Look at the level of the person you're standing with Think of it at that level.
Be Calm:
Many people around me ask me that they have never seen you angry, so you are also running classes, as well as motivating us, and keeping yourself active. you deal with so many people, how do you get the work done without getting angry. There are a lot of things how do you work? Many of the same questions will be asked to you again and again, you should not get angry, It means answering people's questions with a straight face. People notice, is the person in front listening to me attentively. When you repeat the same thing and don't show anger, the other person can see how important my question is, how serious the person in front of me is about my point. People notice, is the person in front listening to me attentively?. And I can say from my experience that it will help reduce your quarrels. Your honor and respect will increase.
The Emotional Intelligence:
Do you have an emotional intelligence? Look at today's history.
I am in a very fast world, a very fast world, social media is running, we are watching videos, sending messages, pizza comes in 20 minutes, the whole world is exposed with one click. And what is happening in this fast-paced world, we are not able to be aware of our emotions, we are not able to control our emotions, due to which people get angry easily, patience is decreasing, fights are seen. All this is increasing because there is no emotional intelligence. And he heard something in his own way, immediately assumed, heard from his own point of view, took his own meaning and went ahead that is, reacted.
But I am not even saying that keep quiet, it is necessary to speak, it is necessary to keep your word, that is why 4p is necessary, your question will be what is 4p? The 4P's mean, pause, act, plan, move on. Instead of reacting immediately, think once if this is your point of view. If everyone understands such a simple thing that I do not want to react, then think how many houses will be saved by ending the quarrels in couples, if parents think before talking to their children, children think before talking to their parents, how many families become beautiful.
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